James’ 1st Birthday!

So my Saturday night continued to buddy’s house, where I spent the whole night playing with this cutie pie!😀
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I had been longing to see him ever since the first time I played with him. Back then he was still the chubby smiley baby, but now he’s already a walking toddler, celebrating his 1st birthday! Not as chubby anymore, but still adorable~
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The reason I wanna attend the party was purely so that I can meet this 稀客 again and take all the cute pictures of him…hahaha! So get ready for the spam😛 Opening my pressie! Hehe!
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I think kids just have fun tearing stuff xD

Bought him a 2 in 1 piano + telephone because I remember buddy telling me that he loves to play with the house telephone! Now he can have fun playing with his own telephone!😀
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Legendary 口水王, ever since baby! Hahaha!

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Happily pressing away~

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Oh those heavy cheeks!

And then it was time to give out the 红鸡蛋 to the guests! The greedy boy kept wanting to eat the egg himself and ended up with red lips…LOL!
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He looks so delighted giving out the eggs!
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So handsome and cute ❤_❤
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Caught a cute video of him giving red egg to Queen! Still such a 笑佛~

Then finally, the cake-cutting time!
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I think he was quite loss when everyone gathered around him. But he sure enjoyed that attention!
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With Daddy & Mummy!
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I think it’s just difficult to take a proper photo of kid + cake. Because they will always be more attracted to the cake than camera! xD
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Gong gong look~

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A selfie to end off! ^v^

Off to Sis’ place for stayover and to babysit babysleep Isaac while they were out for movie~ Haven’t had time for my loveboy for so long! Bought a new toy for him while I was in JB and we spent the next morning building it together! Hehe!
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We built a playground!😀

Off for NDP practice but of course, not before having a good lunch first! After much brainstorming and detouring, finally settled for Cafe Salivation for a sinful meal!
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My very first lasagne! (:

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Working off the calories~

But before I could join in the dance, I had a more important mission which is to hold my own “audition” and pick my star members. It was really a tough one because I have quite high expectation…hahaha! Cannot have any mistake one😛
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It was a longer practice this week because we didn’t have tea break in between. The last 2 hours was spent under the hot sun and I provided special service with my USB fan!😀 Best buy ever!!! Hahaha!

Impromptu Mahjong session after the smelly practice and I thought I would donate money again, but I won 5 bucks! Yayyyyy~ Never lose 就 happy liao! Hehe! This is call 知足常乐~!

It was a slightly more busy week this week but yet it also felt like a pretty short one. Maybe time just pass faster when you are busier. 但忙归忙,still have to find time to relax! Decided to catch a movie on Monday and use up my birthday voucher!

But first, made a visit to the Fortune of Wealth for some good luck first! (:
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It’s actually my first time walking around the fountain and touching it! But a pity I didn’t have time to buy any 4D after touching it…haha~
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Thank you, my dear photographer ((:

Watched The Jungle Book which honestly speaking, wouldn’t be my choice of movie if not that my voucher is expiring and there are limited free listing movies. But it actually turned out pretty nice and justified the good reviews! Not the kind of really kiddy movie that I had imagined~
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My sunflower is on its way!!!

A throwback list when I was trying to jot down all the stuff that I don’t eat, because many have called me a fussy eater, so I’m just trying to prove that I’m not~ It’s not a lot right??? =X
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Finally tried Patisserie G! Walked past it a dozen of times and could only look at the cakes lovingly~ This time round I finally decided to step in!😀
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Very nice and also beautiful chocolate mousse cake with alcohol inside! Love it!
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Off for the real alcohol session at Paulaner! Not the same band this time, but still the same love for this place (:
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Tequila Sunrise!

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First try on their pizza!
Not bad, but still prefer thin crust…hehe.

Thursday wasn’t my day because the whole world was throwing a tantrum at me, even the server. All our computers were hung and it doesn’t help that it was the day client and I were racing against time…Zzzzz. But also “thanks” to that, boss granted us all half day on Friday, because the server problem just couldn’t be fixed. Yep, so extra long weekend for us! Woohooo~

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The only good thing about Thursday.

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Ice-cream sandwich; my weakness.

P.S. Finally cleared all my backlogs! FUCKYEAHHHHHHHH!

Belated Birthday Meals!

Started the new week with souvenirs from Japan again!!!
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This time round it was from the super sweet Uncle J~ Really sweet of him to have saved a box for us! And he even bought a belated birthday gift for me! Hehe! Crashed his office space table over at lunch time because he’s super near us now! Definitely miss our dear lunch kaki! ((:
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Long-awaited Marche dinner with Kai Bin & Co! 6 girls with busy schedule, and we finally, finally fixed a date~ It was Kai Bin’s turn to decide the eating venue and she “stole my idea” when I mentioned about craving for Marche during our previous meetup! Tsk tsk. Hahaha! But thanks to her, I finally satisfied my crepe craving! xD
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And because the girls ordered some pork knuckles, the closet 酒鬼 – Kai Bin revealed her true self and suggested getting a beer! This marked the official first time we are drinking together! Haha!
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Have always loved the interior of Marche (:
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And as expected, the girls had a belated birthday celebration for Kai Bin and I!😀
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Yayyyyy got birthday “cakes” again! Hehe!

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Happy Birthday to 两个很不一样的 Aries! xD

And because Kai Bin always finished her wish before mine and even peeped at me during my wish-making last year, I kept peeping this time to see if she’s peeping at me! LOL.
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Hope to celebrate many more birthdays together! ((:
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Actually we got to choose our own ‘cake‘ and of course lemon meringue was my pick!
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Everyone was a little surprised by Kai Bin’s choice of cake because prune tart just doesn’t sound like an appetising dessert…LOL! But it’s so Kai Bin I think! And it was actually not bad xD
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又有礼物拿咯~! Korea & Japan souvenirs from Shuning and Kai Bin respectively!!!
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Belated birthday angbaos!😀 One from PPGs and one from Kai Bin & Co!
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Got to know that there’s pasar malam in Ghim Moh through the Facebook page again and so it was tutu kueh time again! Hehe! Bought like FIFTEEN this time round because ten wasn’t quite enough for 2 the other time. 15 is not a lot right? It’s just like 7.5 each? ._.

Anyway, the auntie is so generous with the fillings!!! So in love with her! And her tutu kuehs of course! Hahaha!
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Skipped yoga for an impromptu dinner with Mr Ow and Yinning on Thursday because the latter is so busy flying lately, so it’s hard to catch her~ I was in sloppy outfit because I wasn’t expecting to be going out, hence I requested to meet at more “secluded” places…LOL.

Had Sushi Tei at Gardens as my belated birthday meal!😀 I realised whenever I am asked to choose a dinner place, it will usually be Japanese cuisine because they have more ala carte choices~ I seriously can’t eat a proper meal for dinner!
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Long time since my last sake! (:

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Desserts despite being very full again~

Friday night was spent for NDP meeting and I ended up doing my “homework” there, because I know I will not have time to do at home! (I am hardly at home! ._.) Yea so it was back to 眼花缭乱 + tired eyes days doing up all the 168 positions D:

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Chillax time after all the hard work!

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Friday nights should be pretty like this~

Checked out a newly-discovered pasta stall for Saturday brunch and I think it’s my first time having pasta in a hawker? Not bad! Quite a satisfying meal~
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Oh the unsightly thing on top is actually pancake roll! Even though I was already planning to get my tutu kuehs from the pasar malam beside, I couldn’t resist buying the nostalgic snack. My dad used to buy that for me whenever we visit the hawker near Tekka market and the roll just brings back much memories! It’s so hard to find it now; most pancakes are the round or slice kind but not rolls anymore. I know Jollibean has similar ones but I mean the traditional kind like this😦

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After pasta + pancake roll + 3 tutu kuehs

Back home early to do some gardening before heading to buddy’s nephew’s birthday party!😀 Shall cover that in my next post~ Meanwhile, please pray for my sunflower to bloom soon!!!
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Rakuzen

Starting Monday morning with my favourite soon kueh! It’s so good that it’s always sold out! Went down early in the morning to grab 2 of them~ With 1 packet of chilli for each soon kueh😛
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Went down to Wala Wala again to support the cute drummer! Hahaha! It wasn’t my idea okay~ Enjoying the first band first because good things must wait xD
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Munchies & drinks!

Ordered the same jalapeños stuffed with cheese and I never knew jalapeños can be that nice!❤ On the other hand, fries/wedges/potatoes always make me so bloated ._. *burppppp~*
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Finally the next band came around and I think the cute drummer caught me staring a couple of times. HAHAHA. I was just admiring his drumming skill~
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Now you have a reason to visit Wala on a Tuesday! xD
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Promised Ping a video of him drumming away, because we both like drummers!

Met up with PPGs again for a proper dinner because the previous meetup was too short and impromptu! My first time at Rakuzen and Nad picked most of the dishes because she is a regular there!

The recommended salad~ I like it so much that I ate like half!
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Tamago, sushi and quite a number of other sides to share! Somehow I didn’t capture all of them…oops.
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Nad even brought a good red wine along! Although red wine definitely does not go well with Japanese cuisine, it was still a nice one on its own (:
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And thanks to Nad again, we got complimentary desserts even though we were all damn full already! Hahaha! I think it’s one of the rare times we all resisted finishing ICE-CREAMMMM! They are really nice!!! But we are just way too full~
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My favourite banana milk all the way from Korea again!😀 I am really blessed to have friends not only remembering that I like them, but even brought along newspaper for their trips just so to wrap the milk and keep them cool during the flight! So touched by their thoughtfulness! Thank you Shuning this time round❤
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Suddenly felt like doing this before and after thing with half of my face makeup removed! Hahaha! Right is without makeup and left is with. I know lah… Can’t tell from this picture but the main difference is dark eye ring and eyebrow~
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香椿 pasta – 好久没吃了! ((:

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Souvenir from client! So sweet!!!

Had a sudden craving for my tutu kuehs again so I came up with a random idea of trying to google for pasar malam locations! It turned out that there really is a Facebook page where pasar malam lovers share the locations of ongoing pasar malams!!! Hahahaha! Gonna love that page from now on because right away, I was teleported to Tampines for my tutu kuehs ❤_❤
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Finally tried the ice-cream rolls as well! It’s popular at pasar malams these days but I never got to try~ Since my stomach had some space, I decided to give it a try! Yum yum!😀
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Faster eat, we still have one more place to go~” ❤_❤
And then I was teleported to a cafe bar tucked under the blocks of shophouse –  Burp Kitchen & Bar!
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Lychee Caprioska & Tiramisu Cocktail!
Guess which is mine???

As much as I am always having a sweet tooth, tiramisu cocktail just sounded like insomnia to me. So mine is this sour pick instead!😛
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Tried the salted egg yolk tofu fries and OMG it was so niceeeeee~ I admit that I am a big fan of salted egg yolk stuff so I hardly dislike any salted egg yolk dish (unless they give me too little gravy). But this tofu fries just tasted so much less sinful than potato fries (less bloated too) and more importantly, they are so generous with the gravy! So shiok~~~!!!
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So the 3 musketeers hit JB again and my main aim apart from stocking up Vitagen, is this! Mille crepe cake, checked!😀 But of course still not anywhere close to Lady M‘s standard~
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Did some shopping in City Square and I was the empty-handed one again ._. But 没关系 because we still have 1 more destination to cover! Off we go to Sutera Mall!
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Despite having a very full lunch, we just couldn’t resist RM1 ice-cream! RM 1 you know?!?!
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Finally bought stuff and ended up with 大包小包 again~ Done with shopping, off for dinner! The place we wanted to try was closed, so we went back to the same shop where the tom yum soup was damn shiok~ But who knows, the staff said they are closing too! –CRY!!!

Almost missed our last chance of having a proper dinner! Luckily with the mighty power of 3 x 可怜 faces, the boss sitting outside rekindled our hopes by asking the lady boss if we could still order takeaways, and the lady boss decided to take us in as the last few customers for dine in! YAY!!!

Even though this super spicy (but super shiok) Tom Yum soup made Lyn and I rushed home to lao sai, it was totally worthwhile! No regrets for a burning ass! xD
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Sundate with my cute participants! It’s our first week doing formations at the field and I was afraid that they would forget their positions the next week, hence I snapped a picture of them! Hahaha! I am glad the 17 of them that are under me have been cooperative so far (:
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Finally explored Creatures after practice and rewarded ourselves with the signature durian cake!
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Apparently, one piece wasn’t enough, so we ordered a second one! Hahaha! It’s the only thing we could afford, cause laksa costs 24 bucks there O.O
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Went for a cheaper dinner over at Swee Choon after that and we had a dim sum feast! ^^
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Goodbye, Pringles.

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Japanese goodies from le colleague! ^v^

What do you do when you have an abnormally big candy on a boring Monday? Cam-whore of course!!! xD
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Random ‘artistic’ shot of the ceiling~

Extreme hunger is a good excuse for a sinful meal!😛 It’s been some time since I last ate curry okay~
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Caught Long Long Time Ago 2 and although it felt like it was a “squeezed outrojak – anyhow piece together to make a part 2, I was still touched by some parts. Still very angry at the ridiculous brother – Mark Lee in the show, but also thankful at the same time that I don’t have such asshole brother.

Guess my Sis would feel even more from this sequel since there was a part that focused on the eldest sister’s sorrow. Also the part that made me started tearing~ As much as I had hoped to have younger siblings (because I like taking care of people), I do know that I am very blessed to be the youngest (:
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Caught Batman VS Superman as well the previous week, which I forgot to mention, and I still find it ridiculous as to why they wanna fight against each other -.- Guess they are just trying to squeeze the most out of superheroes movies. Still enjoyed some of the excitement, just find the plot too …
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Anyhow, no more otah, so N.O.M as replacement! I have been craving for cakes anyway after I have no more birthday cakes to eat! Hahaha!
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Milk & Honey yogurt after meal!

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Le pig brother’s love ((:

Brought our coffeeshop lunch up to our air-conditioned chilling area in Pictures because there were no seats plus it was a really hot day! xD
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Sadly, Alicia wasn’t at her best for both shots because of the photographer’s impatience😦
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Recent splurge!
If only strawberries are cheap~

Bought some fruits for the Uncle downstairs too! He was always there to say goodbye to me almost every day after work, but lately he is not outside his shop anymore. Got to know from his staff that he has hospitalised😦 Made a card for him too, since there isn’t any bookstore around~ Hope Uncle can get well soon!!!
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Friday was spent meeting up with ex-colleagues from Sentosa – Daniel and Herb~! Can’t believe it’s a decade since our Sentosa days?! OMG~ Had Japanese food again and it was a great catch-up session with the 2 chaps! Forgot to take a photo together so here’s a photo from 10 years ago! Hahaha!
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That’s the half-Korean Daniel who used to bully me a lot! Tsk. Decided to put a pig head on my face in the end because I still cannot face how I used to look. LOL. I hope I won’t feel as disgusted in future looking at my current photos ._. Anyway, our next meetup’s gonna be Korean! Looking forward!

Finally had my long-awaited Tom Yum noodle! It was postponed since the Saturday I was having stomach flu, followed by fever and etc and 我终于等到了!!! It wasn’t as thick as the one I had, but a shiok enough replacement after that has closed down~
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Off to MINDS and since I arrived pretty early on this rainy day, I was asked to be one of the group leaders. We were supposed to choose our own members aka the residents, but the other leaders decided to make it into a popularity contest and let the residents choose us instead! LOL.

I admit that I had zero confidence in the “contest” since my attendance is pretty irregular ._. But luckily I still saw residents running over to me…yayyyyy! Hahahahahaha!

Off for dinner and a short card game with the volunteers before I left for my overnight Mahjong session~ Brought 好料 over from Lola’s Cafe! Because I was craving for cakes/desserts again! HAHAHAHAHA.
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Very shagged session; lost😦 Worse still, felt like everything wasn’t worth it at all the next day~ Tired like mad.

Decided to go for K-session after practice and we were so lucky to get this VIP room!
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Photo-bombing at a whole new level -_-“

For only $10 nett each, we got free flow drinks and snacks (supposedly ice-cream too but the machine was spoiled😦 ), 2 hours of singing and this huge room with huge screen and even pool table (but without the balls)…hahaha!
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Reason being – of course because we are VIP lah!😛 It was definitely pretty shiok to sing in front of the big screen because I have the tendency to move around when I sing somehow, so with the big screen I won’t miss the lyrics anywhere! LOL.
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Why must wefie when I singing -.-“

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Proper wefie!

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不舍得 leave after 2 hours~ Hahaha!

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Indeed! MUSIC MAKES YOU HAPPY!

Post-Birthday

Day 2 of turning 27 was spent on having an unfruitful meeting. Supposedly I thought it’s gonna be a productive one, discussing about formations and all, but it felt like a waste of my precious birthday week. And the feeling was mutual, amongst those seated around me.

It was already a major turn-off when the very first question shot to us was – What else can you guys do? (What other duties?) It felt like this question came about because we mentioned during the retreat about the duties that we shouldn’t be doing, in order to have a smoother training. Like for example, time spent taking the second attendance can actually be very productive time for us to focus more on the formations, especially when we know that we were racing against time last year.

I refused to even answer that question because it’s one that I hate the most. By asking such thing, it already shows how much you “appreciate” what we have done. You are already thinking that we asked to remove some duties from our workload so that we can shake leg everyday. You already think that we aren’t doing enough. If not, why ask what ELSE can we do???

No one actually answered the question in the end, simply because WE ARE ALREADY DOING WHAT WE CAN DO! Let me do a rough timeline of our weekly 4-hour training from last year:

2.30pm – 4pm (not included in the 4 hours): Trainers, group leaders & assistant group leaders arrive for discussion.

4pm – 5.30pm: Learn new dance steps, which we need to learn as well since we are also participants. (No proper time for briefing until we asked for it.)

5.30pm – 6.30pm: Dinner break (but most of the time we will still be busy with discussions amongst ourselves)

6.30pm – 7.50pm: Formation training aka in a frantic mode trying to finish arranging all 80 members in our individual groups to their various positions. If you have all 80 of them listening to you and obeying what you have said, good for you! But most of the time, you will probably have people who just cannot understand what you say (while others can, somehow), or people who think that their little presence or misalignment wouldn’t affect much, so they choose not to understand what you say. On top of that, don’t forget you need to remember and practise your own positions as well, because again, we are also participants, I emphasise.

7.50pm – 8pm: Debrief as a mass group about next week + squeeze in second attendance marking after that and you can pretty much imagine a whole bunch of aunties & uncles at a temple on CNY eve, waiting to 插头炷香。They will be surrounding you in all directions, shouting their names for their attendance to be marked, so that they can be the first to go off.

So the question in my mind was – What else do you want us to do? And which other time are we supposed to squeeze that duty in??? You wanna cut short training, but you want us to do more within this even shorter time, doesn’t make sense, does it?

And on top of those above, we also had meetings after work almost every week just to discuss and do all the homework for the coming weekend. Were you even there to witness that? I really cannot stand it when people say that we haven’t done enough when we had put in so much effort! I have attended every single meeting on time, scheduled all my trips to after 9 August and attended every single practice last year. I have done everything I could to help my group from teaching dance steps to burning midnight oil to finish up their individual positions, and yet I have not done enough. I could have been sleeping that 1.5 hour off instead of reaching early every practice for discussion. I could be going out with friends instead of attending the weekly meetings. So all those were not effort? It is very sick of people to constantly be seeing what others have NOT DONE rather than what they have DONE.

Bonding is not gonna help control the punctuality of our group members. We can only emphasise and emphasise, and anything more than that, we will be getting complaints that my group leaders aren’t understanding enough blah blah blah. Or even, a shout into your face, “People need to work one leh!” Again, were you there to witness that? I know there will be people saying I used to be able to do this and that, why can’t you guys? Is there any difference from saying that we are incompetent? I don’t see that as any form of recognising and appreciating our effort either. Well, all I can say is, well done then. But don’t forget that it’s only our second year doing these, so one simply cannot compare decades of experience with this.

I have said before last year that I didn’t accept this role because it’s an honour; it clearly isn’t. Neither did I ASK to be in this. I only ACCEPTED it because I really hope we can reach the standard of my 2004’s performance, because it has never really been a 100% satisfactory show for me so far in these 5 years. It’s not the choreographer’s fault or that the trainers did not train well, but it’s mainly the difference in age group (we have older participants hence we cannot expect as much) and the “strictness level“.

Back in school, our training attendance affects our CIP hours, but over here, missing one practice doesn’t really have a significant impact, except to your group leaders who had done their homework swee swee, hoping that everything would go smoothly. But your empty position didn’t allow that.

Back in school, any mistake will get us scolded and even punished. We will be asked to redo and redo again. As much as I always believe that practice makes perfect, but can we do that here? No. Why? Because the teachers and trainers have higher authority than the students. Teacher say, “Sit“, we sit, “Stand“, we stand. But over here, we say, “Sit“, you get replies about knee problems, cannot sit. We say, “Assemble“, you see people still hiding under the shade, people still equipping themselves with 273902792312 sun-block gears, people telling you they need to go toilet. So what can we do??? Any form of scolding will become a complaint, let alone to implement any form of punishment. By asking them to redo too many times, you will risk having complaints like, “Later we heatstroke how? How can like that? Sun very hot leh.

Again, why? Because they are not students. They are mostly adults who have eaten more salt than you have eaten rice. They are protected by human rights and whatever rights and you won’t want complaints from them. Because any form of complaints from them will somehow be seen as being disrespectful, ill-treating, poor welfare and etc from a government body. So how do you expect the same kind of standard if you know that you do not have the authority in most things? Let alone we are just a small fry, by the way.

So I have learnt to just keep quiet and do whatever I can. I don’t owe it to anyone; my aim is only to make this performance better. It may not be the best that I want, but at least I have tried. I don’t need to answer to anyone about what more can I do, neither do I need to make them see how much we have done. People who appreciate you will do so without you having to waste a single breath. People who do not appreciate will probably never, period.

Thank you for reading my lengthy rant. I guess the more you age, the more long-winded you get. Well anyhow, back to the post-birthday stuff! Finally had some time to snap a picture of the pressies I received! 有心了 ((:
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I think as we grow older, presents become more like a 心意, rather than a prrrrrresenttttt~ So gifts have been converted into angbaos or a simple meal, which are also a form of 心意。 I remember I used to love receiving presents so much that during my 21st surprise party, my Sis even told everyone that present is a must! LOL! So embarrassing~ Not that I don’t like presents anymore, but I do understand the difficulty in finding something that one likes/needs. So I would rather angbao than receiving something that I don’t like/need. As we age, we just get harder to please as well. Hahaha!

Another birthday treat even though my birthday is over! Yay! Thank you Miss President for my first MOF meal! xD

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Croquette!

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Yummy salad!

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Aburi is loveeeeeee~!!!

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Got full even before eating these sushi ._.

We still had other dishes which I forgot to take picture. But it was a very full Saturday~ Off to MINDS but it was a short project because we had our annual general meeting after that, where we give out certs to the volunteers and also have a handover session to the new chairperson (:
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Headed over to Plonk for a mini celebration after dinner! Got a treat from the old chair and new chair…hehe!

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My super nice Strawberry Adult Slushie!

Chit-chatted and then learned a new card game – Pig Pile, but I wasn’t picking it up fast enough. Then off for supper/dessert, which is the must-have every time we are in Serangoon Gardens – DURIAN MOUSSE!!!❤
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Can never resist! YUMS~!!!

Had a very 惊险 practice on Sunday because it’s gonna determine my fate for the next 5 months. Had to resort to drawing lots in the end because Eric’s group is too popular, or maybe the others are not as. And…

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#FUCKYEAH

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Eric has been promoted to my boss this year! xD

Wefies during briefing cause we had already seen the slides during the meeting~ Steven 老师’s frown seems like he’s judging me for my super random wefies! Hahahaha! Anyway of all people, I still think Steven 老师 is the best encourager!!!
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Super 大白兔奶糖 from Eric!

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Ice-cream after practice!
So long since my last Tom’s Palette!

Japanese food for dinner again! But the difference is this is the super nice vegetarian one which I usually 不舍得 eat because it’s too expensive~

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Thick and nice mushroom soup!

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MUST-HAVE Portobello mushroom!!!

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Gyoza but there’s smelly 香菜 inside; no like~

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Something a bit healthier – Agedashi tofu!

Highly-recommended the Yaki Udon because it was so nice and shiok~! Not as much chilli this time but still nice (:
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